3 Ways to Making approach

1) Don't think too much:

Let your mind go blank and with a smile on your face say something so general and generous things so that she can hear you.

2)Pay attention to your body language:

If you can't make yourself comfortable then get some movies of your favorite actors and go to the scenes when they are approaching girls and practice yourself on the mirror. If you never had such practice before then do it now, you never know when you need to use it.

3) You are the starter:

If you don't open the conversation, you might lose a chance, Saying HI to someone doesn't cost anything, make sure you have a smile on your face.

How to Date Beautiful Women - 3 Ways to Attract and Date Hot

1. Get out of thinking small when it comes to dating.

If you don't like to stay at home on weekend then think big, "I can do it". There's something always hidden behind the beauty, which you can complete. Just don't get afraid of approaching, if you check out the video on the link bellow you will understand what really beauties are looking for





2. To attract beautiful women, you have to put yourself in their league.

Dating beautiful women comes easily when you start to think of yourself as being in their league and not thinking that they must somehow be unattainable just because they look good.

You found out now after watching the video what language you should talk in right? Do you know how to talk to thier per, then learn to do it.
Talk about fantasies, there are some technology exist in Japan may be.

You have to walk and talk with confidence and act as if you are the prize, the one that she should be trying to win over. Making this shift in our thinking can bring about some surprising results.

3. You need to talk to women in a flirtatious way.

If you want to create attraction with a woman, and you want to have her think of YOU as being the kind of man she would love to date, then you NEED to be able to talk to a woman in a flirtatious way.



Most guys are boring when they talk to women. Either they end up trying too hard to impress her by spitting out facts about themselves that they think will turn her on, or they just end up being dry and lifeless.

Body Language over the phone

Professor Albert Mehrabian, a pioneer behind the understanding of communications, since the 1960s, is responsible for the widely quoted statistic which says that in any form of communication only 7% of the message are the words that are spoken. The other 93% of the message is made up of the tone of voice and facial expression/body language.

Taking this research into account you can see just how incredibly difficult it is to be an effective communicator over the phone. This really comes into play when the content being discussed is highly emotive. However in today’s modern business world we can’t avoid using the phone, and we need to develop skills to compensate for the absence of body language.

Below are some of my hints/tips for creating great body language while on the phone.

Vary the pace, tone and pitch to fit the content. Talk slower and calmer if the message is serious. Talk a little faster, more enthusiastically and lighter when the message is more upbeat.
Respond vocally to comments and questions. Reflective listening with prompts like “a-ha”, “hmm”, “yes” or “I see”, will let the people who are speaking know that you are listening.
Use a head-set with a microphone. This will free your hands and body, giving you more room to express yourself.
Stand up when speaking on the phone. If you don’t need to be at your computer screen, get up and walk around. You’ll sound more enthusiastic, and it’s a great way to transmit body language via your voice. If you must sit down, then sit up straight and remain attentive.
The most important tool you have when on the phone is your voice. Consider vocal exercises to improve the quality and range of your voice. A voice with good vocal range is much easier to listen to, than one which is dull and mono-tone.
Focus on your breathing. It’s good practice to learn some breathing exercises that you can use prior to the start of a call where you will do a lot of speaking. This is really helpful before a really important call, where you might be a bit nervous.
I hope you find these tips useful. Are you using them today? If so perhaps you can share examples of where they have helped you. Do you have any additional tips that you’d like to share? Please let us know by leaving a comment.

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Phone Game, What to talk when Calling a Girl

Today, specifically we're going to cover what to say on your first phone call.

As you probably know, a girl's opinion is largely based on the feelings she experiences during your first phone conversation.

Most guys fail in this area, because they simply "wing it" instead of forming a plan of action.

Whenever calling a girl there were a NUMBER of things you should do. For instance, you should do the following in EVERY phone conversation:

1) Have a "call back humor" joke:

Before you get a number, it's important to have some sort of connection or private joke. It could be a nickname you give her.

Or if you met her online, you could refer to something about her profile that you busted her on.

The point is using call back humor will immediately establish that connection you formed when you first got her number. It doesn't have to be anything fancy, just a something that shows points out the connection the two of you have.

2) Have a few questions about her

 

It's important to establish a connection with any conversation you have with a woman. Before calling her, jot down a few questions that you GENUINELY want to know about her.

Ask about her:

* Hobbies and life outside work

* Dreams and aspirations

* Favorite places to travel

* Music, movies, and books she likes

Now you'll find that many so-called "seduction gurus" tell you to ignore any rapport seeking questions before you know she's into you. And they'll also probably recommend never asking anything that makes you seem like you're trying to seek her approval.

But I honestly believe that it's necessary to ask questions like this. Honestly, it's important for creating attraction. However it's EQUALLY important to make her feel that sense of connection where you truly *get* her.

So, you ask questions about her. But you also want to challenge her at the same time. Ask her WHY she likes the things she does. Tease her a little. Create some banter between the two of you.

3) Have stories to tell

Stories should be the backbone of ANY attraction building conversation. Frankly one of the BIGGEST mistakes I've made in the past was having nothing to talk about.

Before picking up the phone, you should jot down a few notes about some of the interesting things you've done during the week. Also if you have a story from your past that you know women love, NOW is the time you should tell it!

Any story you tell should put you in the best possible light. It should subtly demonstrate that you're a fun, high status guy who has a lot going on in your life. And if this isn't the truth, then it's time to get out there and do something!

4) Have a *date* idea

NEVER, EVER pick up the phone without having a few fun activities planned. It can be something you're doing with your friends. Or it can be something as simple as a trip to the mall.

The point is you want a SPECIFIC activity that you're doing during the week. And then as the conversation comes to the conclusion, you should invite her to come join you.

Typically this is known as a *date*. However I'm a firm believer in not using that word OR making it sound like a big deal. Let her know that you want to see her again. But you're also NOT structuring your entire life around seeing her. If she agrees, she agrees.

If she doesn't...Oh well. Next.

Bottom line is a phone call should be a fun experience. Use it to establish a connection, create attraction, and showcase your UNIQUE personality. Don't make the mistake of being boring , Instead be a exciting, engaging guy that she'll want to IMMEDIATELY see in person.

Ref: Here

4 Rules that makes you Johnny Depp among women

Like most guys, I'm sure you want to know the "secrets" for seducing women. The problem IS there really isn't major technique that works. There isn't a magical word or phrase that'll automatically make a woman want to sleep with you.

With that said, there are a few concrete RULES that'll increase your chances for seducing women.

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1- Improve yourself first
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Knowing how to seduce women doesn't come naturally for many men.

In fact, it takes lots of practice. So how do you get practice?

It's simple- get out there and start meeting women!

As you know women are attracted to guys with confidence. And the best way to get this trait is through repeated success.

And you get this through practice and repetition. So go out and keep approaching till you get over many of the "internal game" that's holding you back.

In essence, you're learning how to master seduction by increasing your opportunities.

Now if you feel have limited time, then start prioritizing things in your life.

For instance, you should dump the activities that aren't REALLY adding any real value...like T.V., video games and boozing all night with your buddies.

Think of it this way, would you rather watch a show about life or actually HAVE one?

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2- Plan your dates
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Like a general in the army, you have to form a plan of attack.

Unlike the guys who fail with women, you achieve success by blueprint for starting the date all the way to the bedroom.

Sure it might not work every time, but at least you have an idea of how to handle the different obstacles and situations that typically arise on a date.

What you want to do is plan out the seduction process from the moment you talk to the woman to the moment that you have sex.

The most important aspect to this process is to know your 'escalation points'.

In essence, an escalation point is the action that'll help advance to the next step in the seduction process.

These will include the following:

** Where you go on the date
** What to talk about
** How to transition from talking to kissing her
** How to get her back to her place
** The way to initiate foreplay
** How to transition from foreplay to sex

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3- Have patience
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One mistake guys make is to rush things and put too much pressure on women. Usually doing this can have disastrous results!

In order to become a master seducer you have to learn how to take your time and have patience.

This means focusing on creating the right mood, talking to her in a seductive manner and initiating foreplay....the RIGHT way!

Taking your time to enjoy the experience will increase your chances for SUCCESS!

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4- Deal with rejection
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I want to be honest here...

There WILL be times where you'll be rejected by women!

But instead of being frustrated and annoyed, learn how to deal with it in a positive and upbeat manner.

Just remember there will be moments when some women aren't in the mood for sex or won't feel it's time to make things intimate.

When this happens, just move on and don't act weird. Furthermore don't get angry and take it out on her.

My rule of thumb is when you act like you don't care about having sex you'll get more of it!

But if you follow my advice on how to seduce a woman and time things right, you'll probably eliminate most chances of rejection.



ref: Here

Instant Chat messages that makes her turn on

Sending MSN/AIM Instant Messages That Turn Her On

How the hell do you turn on a girl... SEXUALLY... through instant messenger conversations?

Sure, some girls just don't dig the whole "cyber" thing... but how do you know if you've got one that does?

Let see how you can figure out if a girl is D.T.C. (Down To Cyber)... and you how you can learn to convert her into a girl that's receptive to "cybering".

Then... get her phone number and invite her over for some REAL sex...

First and foremost... do not attempt these methods unless you've built enough trust and attraction FIRST... you need to receive at least seven online indicators of interest before attempting any of this. And furthermore, these tactics work best for girls that you know in real life already...

But let me tell you first the power of the ";)" emoticon. No, that isn't a typo... it's the WINK emoticon. The careful and precise usage of this can get you LAID, buddy! 

So listen up...After a few minutes of attraction building, say something like...

"Be right back... don't miss me TOO much... ;)"

If you've built enough trust and if she feels like she knows you well, she'll be receptive to this. If not, she'll just say something like... "lol. Ok."

If you get that response, don't move on...

However, if you do get a response that's positive... when you come back, say something like... "So you missed me, huh? You know you love me. ;)"

A lot of women will respond to this in a very sexual manner if you've built enough trust.

After, if the response is positive, which it should be... keep escalating! Start talking about sex... not sex between you two... but sex in general. Be descriptive.

Did you know that women generally LOVE reading about sex? Why do you think all those romance novels really get some women going...?

It's because she fills in the blanks with her imagination.

Escalating a woman through text message or instant message is a lot easier than you think...

Ref: Derek Lamont
Online Game Pickup Secrets

Stop Doing this around Girls

What is this behavior?

It's the behavior of acting like "The Nice Guy" when you're 
talking to women.

The truth is there are a lot of guys who try TOO HARD with women. 

You know the type I'm talking about. These are the guys who 
will do ANYTHING to get attention.

They'll buy gifts. They aim to please a woman no matter what.

And they're always ready to lend a helping hand whenever needed.

You might *think* this is making you seem 'dateable' to a woman.

But the harsh reality is the "nice guy behavior" is ruining your
chances.

By acting like a supplicating wimp, you'll end up repelling 
women instead of attracting them.

Without going into too much female psychology, the nice guy
presents no challenge to a woman. Most of them want a guy who 
interests them and presents a challenge.
Instead of being like the overly sweet guy to women, you want to
create a bit of tension. 

This means setting up a strict set of standards. If a woman fits
YOUR criteria, then YOU make the decisions to date them.

Having a personal code of conduct gives the appearance of an
attractive guy with STATUS. 

Furthermore, you should challenge women if they're disrespecting 
you or not matching up to your expectations.

While you might feel weird or think you're disrespecting women, 
there are strict rules for attracting them. 

By not kissing a girl's ass and doing everything she asks, 
you'll getting rid of the 'Nice Guy' persona. 

And as a result, you'll transform yourself into the kind of man
who women desire.

Finally it's EXTREMELY important to develop confidence. This is 
especially true if they challenge or try to reject you.

By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens" 
attitude, you'll act like a woman who isn't concerned about the 
outcomes of an interaction with women. In fact, you'll look 
like you're not trying too hard. 

Trust me...this kind of attitude is incredibly intoxicating to
women. By acting like a confident guy with status, you're 
setting yourself apart from the needy, undesirable behavior that
most guys demonstrate around women.



Appreciation to: Scott Peterson

5 Ways to start conversation with woman

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1- Ask for her opinion
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The opinion opener has gained a lot of popularity since the T.V.
show, "The Pickup Artist." 

The funny thing is although women know about this one, it's STILL
very effective.

It works like this. You go up to a woman and simply ask her 
opinion on something. The best opinion openers are ones which 
get them talking...

...So a good opinion opener can NEVER be answered with a quick 
'Yes' or 'No' answer.

Then once she's talking, you use her answers to seed more of 
the conversation.

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2- Give her a compliment
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Most pickup lines could be classified as a compliment. For 
instance, a typical pickup line would be like: "Did it hurt when
you fell out of heaven and landed on earth?"

Now pickup lines are cheesy because they typically point out a 
physical characteristic instead of something which she has a 
control over.

The funny thing is compliments can work...IF they're done 
correctly. 

Usually this finding something UNIQUE that she's DOING that 
deserves a compliment. Like her choice in an outfit or 
accessories. Or how you noticed that she has confidend body
language. 

And the key here is to make a passing comment. Not like your
entire conversation hinges on the outcome of whether she will
be interested or not.

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3- Talking about a dramatic event
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Simply put, Women love drama. Whether it's adventure, excitement 
or romance, women enjoy hearing about an interesting event. 

You can take advantage of this tendency by using drama to start
a conversation. 

For instance, let's say you're with one of your buddies. During
the middle of the conversation, you turn to a nearby girl and
talk about something exciting you just saw. Whether it was a 
catfight or simply some guy breaking up with his girlfriend, you 
can use this type of opener to engage a girl and get her talking.

Yes, this is pretty similar to the opinion opener. But the 
subtle different is telling a good story that'll attract her
interest.


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4- Using your environment and current "situation"
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A Situational Opener is a great conversation starter to use when 
you've just witnessed something interesting. It's really the 
wildcard of all openers. 

It can be used in ANY situation. The key focus here is to pay 
attention and look for opportunities to start talking to women. 

For instance if you see a guy "crash and burn" with a pickup 
line, you can use this opportunity to start talking to the same 
group.

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5- Use a direct conversation starter
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The Direct Opener is simple (and preferable by some women). 

All you have to do is walk up to a woman and introduce yourself. 

Unlike the others, this conversation starter doesn't rely on 
gimmicks or trickery. You simply put yourself (for better or 
worse) out there and start talking to a woman.

You'd be surprised at how often this works. Women get tired of
hearing lame attempts with their "pick ups" so this one might
set you apart from others. 

Well...I hope you learned something from these five ways to start
conversations. The most important lesson is to get out there and
practice. ONLY then will you be able to have the kind of success
you deserve.


Thanks to Scott Patterson

South Asian Girls Fashion

South Asian girl's party dresses are extremely rich in design. 

I got these images through forwarded email.

Hitch: Top 10 Stupid Things Women Say

Hitch: Top 10 Stupid Things Women Say

Top 10 Stupid Things Women Say

By Naya Hunter

Stupid things women say

Have you ever gone on a first date that you thought went swimmingly only to be left wondering why he never called you again? Well, if you said any of the following things to him, you’ll have your answer.

Stupid things women say #10

It looks like you’re losing your hair

This is just one example of the myriad insults you could unknowingly say to a man. You might think his receding hairline is sorta cute, but you can bet he’s going to break out the Rogaine the second he gets home.

You wouldn’t like it if he said you had “cute, hairy arms”,  so don’t say anything that might be construed as an insult.

Stupid things women say #9

I used to be really fat

The minute you reveal a terrible flaw of yore or even today, he will spend the evening picturing this flaw. So if you used to be shaped like a circle, you can bet that every time you take a forkful of food, he’s picturing Patty the Fatty and won’t be able to shake it.

While it’s okay to be self-deprecating every now and then, your objective should be to place yourself in a very positive light, so tell him about your recent promotion or how you once punched a shark in the head when you thought it was going after your friend.

Stupid things women say #8

I want a man with money & a nice car

While the exact words may not come out of your mouth, many women tend to give off the impression that they’re in it for the money. What’s worse, an innocent question like “What do you do?” might be misinterpreted as “How much money do you make?”

When it comes to money matters and the like, try to keep the conversation light. The last thing you want him to think is that you’re a gold digger.

Stupid things women say #7

I’ve slept with 26 men & I’m only 24

Whenever I hear women saying the age old, “When a man sleeps with a hundred women, he’s a stud, but when a woman does it, she’s a whore”. Yes, and many men (and even women) will always see that way.

I’m not going to get into why lowering yourself down to that train of thought is not the brightest move, but I will tell you that revealing to any man that you’ve slept with a couple of football teams in your day will only serve to place you in the “party girl” category. And if that’s where you want to be, party on.

But if not, then don’t reveal how many men you’ve slept with, had relationships with, or anything remotely close to that until you get to know him better (or perhaps even never at all).

Stupid things women say #6

Sorry, I have my period

You’re a bit crabby and achy, and even if that little bitch is visiting, there’s no need for a news flash. Men are visual and the second he hears “period”, you could imagine that dinner won’t be as tantalizing as it was a minute ago.

Words like “cramps, ovulating, period”, and “time of the month” should not be uttered on dates. Instead, if you’re feeling crampy, take a Midol and make the best of it.

Stupid things women say #5

My ex was amazing in bed

Any compliments you have for the ex-boyfriend will not bode well for the gentleman sitting across you. He will think you’re still attached, rebounding, having sex with him, or all of the above.

That’s not to say that you should be blasting away at your ex, either. There is no need to bring him up at all unless he’s just a fixture in an interesting story and not the focal point.

Stupid things women say #4

Sally slept with Jeff who was dating Jane…

Gossip. It is the bane of most of us. Give me a tabloid and I’m good for the day, but the moment I’m on a date, who did what with whom is off limits.

People who spend their time gossiping, especially to someone who has no idea whom they’re talking about, end up appearing like losers. It’s as though there aren’t enough interesting things happening in your life and you need to fill the void by enjoying everyone else’s misery.

Of course, mentioning Brad, Angelina and that whole fiasco is one thing, but talking about people he’s never heard of is quite another.

Stupid things women say #3

I think I’m falling in love with you

It’s possible you connected on a million levels and you think that he’s the one. But saying so after knowing him for such a short amount of time will make you seem unstable.

I am a believer in love at first sight and instant connections, but most guys I’ve spoken to don’t fall for that and are very skeptic of those who do.

Keep dating, enjoy the time you spend with him and see where it goes. Just don’t mess it up by professing your undying love over a casual dinner date.

Stupid things women say #2

I hate…

No matter what it is you hate – sunshine, your brother, hairy backs, toenails – the word “hate” has a very strong connotation and places you in a negative light. And hating so many things over the course of a night will only make you seem like, well, a hater.

So rather than use the word hate to describe your sentiments about anything, opt instead to use “dislike” or “prefer”. You don’t want to come off as angry and bitter.

Stupid things women say #1

My mom thinks I should be married

Making a hint that in any way closely resembles marriage, let alone actually saying the word will drive any man who barely knows you out of your life faster than you can say “diamonds”.

Even if you’re pushing 40, advertising that you’re browsing for a husband is not the way to go. If you hit it off, that’s one thing, but talking about such a serious issue during a casual date may lead to uncomfortable silences.

Instead, keep things light and fun, and make sure he knows you’re interested without breaking out the wedding invitation list.

Stupid things women say

So long as you manage to avoid keywords like marriage, hate, in love, my ex, period, money, and car, you’ll probably come out of your date feeling good about yourself and the situation.

Hopefully he’ll manage to avoid saying anything that ends up getting your goat, and you’ll live happily ever after.

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