How to Hook Up with a Girl at a Bar

Are you a nerd, and it's been six months since you've been intimate with a girl? Well, do not worry. Nerds understand that everything has a science and a method. Convincing a girl to go home with you is no different, so here's how.

Steps:

1. Buy clothes that women will like. Try and have a hot girl go with you so you don't buy clothes that make you look nerdy or like you are at work. Select the right clothes for the right type of girl. If you want bad girls you have to look bad. Image is key more than looks. Also try to smell good.
2. Drink a little before you go out. It may help you get over your fear of approaching women. But don't get too drunk, this hurt and not help you.
3. Call pals with a lot of lady friends: They might bring a future prospect. Or go solo but go to bars that have other guys who are solo. Crowded places are the best. MAKE SURE YOU GO TO BARS THAT HAVE GIRLS PRESENT.
4. Have a drink in your hand, so you don't fidget too much. If you don't want to drink, get a ginger ale or 7UP but have the bartender use a highball glass, so it will look like a mixed drink.
5. Look for a group of three girls or a girl alone. Girls alone are normally a little psycho and need love, if she is with two other girls they will leave her friends behind. When two girls are together they rarely split up.
6. Introduce yourself. Guys brag about their intro but the best intro is saying 'hello my name is...' If she thinks you are cute she won't care what comes next. Just be polite and funny if you can.
7. Ask her to dance. If you don't dance, your chances will be limited. Dancing is helpful to build up a rapport, even if you make a joke of it. If you're in a hot sweaty club, get close and dance with your hands on her. DON'T BE SCARED! Women like when a guy takes control a little., just be sure to pay attention to her signals and not go too far too fast.
8. Buy her drinks, but not too many or she will get sick or sleepy. Order fun drinks like car bombs and drink together. Remember, it depends on her style. If she's a booze-hound, pour away! But, this article is more about how to get normal girls.
9. Be affectionate with her hands and body but make sure everything looks and feels natural. DON'T BE PUSHY!
10. Invite her to another bar near your house for a special martini or whatever. Make sure she is close enough to walk.
11. NEVER SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE. Keep it light.
12. When at the bar, mention something great about your place like a painting or whatever. Something that cues her to ask to go there. If she doesn't, relax. Remember that she will when she leaves the bar near your web.
13. If you drive her home, ask to use the bathroom when at her place.
14. If she goes to your place, invite her in and promise you won't make any moves. She will blush at your forwardness but for whatever reason she will believe you...
15. Once home, ignore her for a bit by talking about other things. Be distracted and don't hit on her right away unless she attacks you. Most girls like to get adjusted. Make sure the place is clean and dark and has cool music. Rock and roll or electronic music is the stuff that says "at my place we party." Romantic music is sappy and too obvious.
16. Kiss.
17. If she says no at any point, back off and don't push.
18. Ask for a backrub or give her a backrub.
19. If it happens, it happens. If not, let her sleep over or call her a cab and try with someone else.

What you should do to understand a person?

Make a checklist based on following traits, if you put on a person’s contain behaviors and characteristic based on your observations, interaction then you may able to generate a outline of that person in general, which will help you to develop your communication skills, interaction skills and as well as to get the interest of that person in you.

NEED		DRIVE		FOCUS		DIRECTION
OPEN	CLOSE	RATIONAL	EMOTIONAL	SPECIFIC	GLOBAL	EXTERNAL	INTERNAL

1. Need: How a person need things or circumstance to be; a person with open need will not mind with the things or situations to be left hanging and unfinished but in opposite the person with close need will look forward things to be settled and decided.
2. Drive: There are two attributes that drive a person with; Rational and Emotional some make decision or takes care of situation with their feeling or emotions, other makes it with their intellectual or logical approach.
3. Focus: Some people only focus on the things that are in their surrounding and some personal matters, and they care about now, the past and the future of minimal interest and they are more practical and sensible comparatively speaking, but those who focus globally care more like in abstract matters and they live in world of future.
4. Direction: People who are directed externally are outgoing and more social, they usually do have more friends, they like to have a superficial life. People who are directed internally do have only few friends, do not shares personal matters with other more.

Knowing these basic traits will help you to start a good communication and a right approach to a person that you are sexually attracted to. Moreover they will be interested in you and as well as you will be getting good attentions from them because after this entire basic math you may know about most of the things that they keep their interest in.