What you should do to understand a person?

Make a checklist based on following traits, if you put on a person’s contain behaviors and characteristic based on your observations, interaction then you may able to generate a outline of that person in general, which will help you to develop your communication skills, interaction skills and as well as to get the interest of that person in you.

NEED		DRIVE		FOCUS		DIRECTION
OPEN	CLOSE	RATIONAL	EMOTIONAL	SPECIFIC	GLOBAL	EXTERNAL	INTERNAL

1. Need: How a person need things or circumstance to be; a person with open need will not mind with the things or situations to be left hanging and unfinished but in opposite the person with close need will look forward things to be settled and decided.
2. Drive: There are two attributes that drive a person with; Rational and Emotional some make decision or takes care of situation with their feeling or emotions, other makes it with their intellectual or logical approach.
3. Focus: Some people only focus on the things that are in their surrounding and some personal matters, and they care about now, the past and the future of minimal interest and they are more practical and sensible comparatively speaking, but those who focus globally care more like in abstract matters and they live in world of future.
4. Direction: People who are directed externally are outgoing and more social, they usually do have more friends, they like to have a superficial life. People who are directed internally do have only few friends, do not shares personal matters with other more.

Knowing these basic traits will help you to start a good communication and a right approach to a person that you are sexually attracted to. Moreover they will be interested in you and as well as you will be getting good attentions from them because after this entire basic math you may know about most of the things that they keep their interest in.